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Changing the Culture Around Elder Care in Nigeria
In many Nigerian homes, elder care is still seen as a private family duty—handled quietly, often without support, and sometimes at great cost to everyone involved. Love and respect for our elders run deep in our culture. Yet love alone is no longer enough.
Families are changing. People live and work farther apart. Health needs are more complex. Life moves faster. And still, many families wait until there is a crisis before asking for help.
It’s time to change how we think and talk about elder care in Nigeria.
Why the conversation matters now
Nigeria’s ageing population is growing. More parents are living longer with conditions like hypertension, diabetes, stroke complications, dementia, and mobility challenges. At the same time, adult children are juggling work, parenting, and financial pressures.
Too often, care becomes reactive:
A fall that could have been prevented
A hospital admission after months of silent struggle
A burned-out daughter or son doing their best but feeling overwhelmed
Changing the culture means moving from crisis care to planned, supported care.
Elder care is not neglect
One of the biggest myths is that seeking professional help means “abandoning” your parents. In reality, good elder care is an extension of love.
Professional care can:
Support dignity, privacy, and independence
Reduce avoidable hospital visits
Provide companionship and reduce loneliness
Give families peace of mind, especially those living abroad
Choosing support is not failure. It is responsibility.
Dignity should be the standard
Ageing should not mean loss of voice, choice, or respect. A healthy elder-care culture puts the person first—what they like, how they want to live, and what makes them feel safe.
That means:
Care plans built around the individual, not convenience
Respectful communication, not talking over elders
Safe environments, trained caregivers, and clear supervision
Our elders deserve care that honours their life stories, not just their medical needs.
Training and standards matter
Another cultural shift we need is recognising that caregiving is a skilled role. Not everyone is equipped to provide safe, consistent care.
Trained caregivers understand:
Personal care and hygiene with dignity
Medication support and basic health monitoring
Safeguarding and infection control
How to communicate with elders and families
When caregivers are trained and supervised, everyone is safer.
Families should not carry this alone
Caregiving can be emotionally and physically exhausting. Burnout is real, and it often goes unspoken.
A better culture of elder care allows families to say:
“We need help.”
“We want support, not stress.”
“We want to plan early, not panic later.”
Support systems protect not just elders—but the families who love them.
A shared responsibility
Changing the culture around elder care in Nigeria requires all of us:
Families having honest conversations early
Communities normalising professional support
Organisations setting clear standards for quality and dignity
Care providers being transparent, accountable, and person-centred
When we talk openly about ageing, care, and support, we remove shame and replace it with understanding.
The way forward
Elder care should be proactive, respectful, and rooted in dignity. It should support independence where possible and provide structured help when needed. Most importantly, it should allow our elders to age with comfort, connection, and respect.
At EOON Care, this is the culture we are building—one family at a time.
Call to Action
If you have ageing parents—or care for an older loved one—don’t wait for a crisis.
📞 Call or WhatsApp: +234 816 7929 521
🌐 Visit: www.eooncare.com
📧 Email: info@eooncare.com
Let’s change the story of ageing in Nigeria—together.
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